By Violet Harris, Bumbebees

Being a home-educated teenager is an experience unlike any other. For some it can be a journey filled with unique challenges, incredible opportunities, and self discovery while others view it as prison. While many people associate school with rigid schedules, group projects, and endless tests and exams, my education has been flexible and has taken place in the comfort of my home, cafes, and even outdoors.

The pros of home education

One of the biggest perks of home-schooling is the freedom to work with my own schedule. I can go at my own pace, diving into subjects I like while spending extra time on areas that need improvement. The flexibility also allows me to incorporate hobbies and extracurricular activities, such as music, sports and my spiritual time without the restraints of a traditional school day.

Instead of following a one-size-fits all curriculum, my education is tailored to my personal interests and learning style. My tutors help me to explore subjects that intrigue and excite me such as creative writing and geometry while also including real world learning experiences 

With this personalised and flexible schedule, I am able to spend quality time with family which strengthens relationships. Unlike some of my traditionally schooled friends and peers who struggle to find time to spend with their parents and siblings. 

Without the daily exposure to cliques, social ladders and peer pressure, I’ve been able to develop confidence in myself and my learning. While I still face social challenges (as every teen does) I find that my friendships are more meaningful and real, unlike most school friendships which are based on mere proximity and popularity.

The cons of home education

While homeschooling has its social benefits, it can also be isolating. Without a school environment, it takes away the daily interaction with peers. To counteract this, I facetime friends, have weekly alternating sports with ones my age and regularly arrange activities, especially in summer. 

Self motivation is crucial. Without strict deadlines and a traditional classroom setting, staying motivated can be challenging (especially when doing work in your bed). It’s so easy to procrastinate when there’s no teacher looming over your shoulder. Over time and still now I’m trying to develop strong time management and self discipline skills to make sure I stay on track.

Most extracurricular activities such as sports teams and theatre productions are much harder for homeschooled kids to participate in. While independent activities are available, group things often require extra support or help to find and join. 

Being homeschooled is having to face misconceptions and stereotypes. People assume I don’t get enough socialisation, that my schoolwork isn’t meeting the expectations and standards of public schooled children in the same year as me or that I sit in my Pajamas all day. In reality, it requires dedication and effort just like any other form of education.

Home-schooling is a unique journey filled with highs and lows. While it’s not the perfect fit for everyone, it has given me the freedom to explore, build strong relationships with others in the same position as me, and develop self-discipline. If you’re considering home education or are currently doing it, remember that your journey is what you make of it. With dedication, creativity, and an open mind, home-schooling can be an incredibly rewarding experience.